I.ve said this before..if there is one small regret i have , it is of rushing back in. I think you need to back off. i understand you completely regarding who gives a hoot about mundane stuff when you feel he should doing cartwheels to win you back. If you want a life with Dan grasshopper...i am afraisd you will have to be alot less agressive and more patient...you know the old act as if. i know it is cliche and it may not even work but as k and k say above, relationship talk is definately not helping at all at this point. Hang in there...I know it is tough but you have to slow down. One more thing, stop bending over backwards for him.....you should not sign anything you are not comfortable with regardless of the consequences for him. think about you for a change...put yourself first BBJ.