Thanks for the check in. I am still here. My world continues to be crazy. W and I do not say a word to each other except in mediation. We do communicate by text messages as needed on logistical things.
We each have real estate agents - will co-list our house.
Mediation is a strain at times. W really plays the "poor me" card a lot. Mediator said at first meeting that it was a way to move forward. So W is playing that to the max. She thinks that NOTHING before our first meeting matters. For example, she took the kids from the house for 4 nights before our first meeting. But this DOESN'T COUNT AS DAYS I SHOULD GET TO "MAKE UP" (we have agreed to 50/50 at this point) BECAUSE IT WAS "IN THE PAST". Sorry, but I say F THAT!!!! (Apologies on the language ).
Anyway, I will try to come back more. I am exhausted with the 2/2 rotation we are on right now. The kids like the lack of tension, but I am not sure they are crazy about anything else...
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
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