My $.02. Women are prideful creatures, just as men are. But they perceive things differently than we do. You know, the emotions and all that. What's more, I think that ultimately the memory thing is stronger for them than for us - I mean, I bet Carrie remembers what you were wearing when she knew she was going to marry you and I bet you don't.
So it's obviously hard for her to realize what's happened. Will she admit that? Who knows - pride and obstinacy lead down long roads. What's more, her realizing you're no longer accessible is hard - especially because of the connection you will always share.
Guilt and second-guessing will always be there and surface at times. How much do want to acknowledge it and what do you want from it?
