(((Mel)))

Does this mean you are leaving the forum? I hate to see your M come to an end. Are you sure he is going to file? Is there really nothing left in you to try and hold out? I mean I know you have to do what you have to do.

I know its not an easy place to be in. But what is 6 more months to see if yall can get things going again in the course of a lifetime?

Your marriage is special. Its just at a very rough point right now. And it will take some time to get back to where it needs to be. DB. Ya gotta keep the efforts up and keep the faith.

Ok, I know that is my 2x4 to ya. I just hate to see a marriage finally end. I don't want mine to end and I don't want to see others end either. Take faith in Jesus. He can help you. God can fix this.

Its just not necessarily in our own time. I know its tough to be strong and patient. Believe me I know. But I know you can do it.

I'm just trying to be encouraging and get your family back together.

I say this with a whole lot of care for yall. Don't despair. Definitely move on with your life by DBing and doing what you need to. Prepare for the worst and pray for the best. Pray for strength.

I have faith in you.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...