Never say Never; it's worth the fight!

[Silent Chrleader]

Hi, Treese!!!

I am pretty much at the same point you are emotionally right now. The frustration and anger ambushes me, and I have really struggled with the backslides the last couple weeks.

I too hate that he is "so happy, and feels like a weight has been lifted off his shoulder!!" (his words).

And my H uses the "we" lots too......it means nothing.

MWG is right. If he does work at the house, just smile and say "thanks" and let it go......

We need to really fully detach and move on. It's such a freakin' hard thing to do, but we gotta !!

Hang in there!!

[[[[[hugs]]]]]