I am glad you and the kids are okay. The siding can be fixed but the main thing is that you and your family are okay.
If your husband wants to fix it or take care of the damage, by all means, let him. And then just say thank you when the job is done.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19