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quote] I think for true communication to be present it's just as vital for her to know what you want and expect as it is for you to continue your efforts to respectfully meet her needs.

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The primsry thing I want from her is respectful communication (the very thing she's asking from and setting limits for with me). I think that's the foundation expectation that will allow the others to be met. There can be no intimacy without respectful communication.

It will be easy to speak up on this one, because it's so basic, and it's also what she's asking for.

I did mention it in an email, and it was dismissed. However, I realize it will take repeated attempts.

Beyond respectful communication, I don't know what I want from the M. I wonder if my secondary expectations are being met (or are suppressed)?

CL

Last edited by Concerned_Listener; 02/13/09 03:15 AM.
CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching