"You have to do what you have to do. Nobody can sit on the sidelines and make their opinions right for you. I think feelings have more to do with it than “right” and “wrong.”
I don’t think two wrongs will ever make a right. And spite is never right.
I’m not sure I’ve ever seen anything work out clean and neat to everyone’s satisfaction.
I probably would not have picked him for you, but on the other hand he is not a bad choice, either. I know you all have had some good times, too.
Would he still be sitting in the middle if he had to sell the house? Seems like this is having your cake and eating it, too.
As I recall, he was dating a dog before he met you!
Odds are that both of you will NOT be the bigger person.
Getting through school is your main objective and I’d sure try to keep that focus in spite of everything.
Don’t worry, you have done no wrong and we don’t need to know all the details. We love you! I will most likely not continue texting, but I did tell him those were the first presents we bought back when it was hot and to not set anything on fire. He said he’d try not to and that was all. Am LOL because he probably doesn’t want to talk to me VERY much! And I can guarantee your dad doesn’t want to talk to him at all!
I will repeat, if you haven’t talked to a lawyer, you probably ought to just to know your rights.
AND, this is just MY opinion. Please know that we love you. Period. And you can be honest with us because we love you and understand that it is not our right or job to pressure. WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!
Mom"
I want to not care what he wants/does anymore. I wish it didn't affect me the way it does.
I don't want to be hurtful or spiteful towards him, but I do want to live a brutally HONEST life. So if he is fine with whatever I do then great. If not, he can GetTheFOverIt.
No more calls. No more emails. No more sex no matter what. (You were right, I wasn't strong enough. Or, I was, but when he said "if we work this out" I believed him.) DAW with a DAM anyway.
I may be in the poor house now, but next year, when this degree is final, I will be perfectly fine. Really. More than fine. Not great, but good enough, and better than most.
I want to keep coming back here, and I'm sure I will, but I don't think I'm going to be here as much. It keeps me wrapped up in everything and I need to be moving forward. I have tons of studying to do, and I need to focus on that.
I love you all so much.
25, you should join fb. my hometown, uvalde, tx has a group on there that anyone can join. it's amazing what all is on there!
gotta take a break. I appreciate everything ya'll have done for me. I know I am a better person for the experience.
Melissa
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
