Steady Have you already agreed to move out through this whole ironing out the details process?
As for the separation / divorce....it seems that the best thing to do would be to work out some sort of amicable agreement if at all possible.
What has her mindset been through all of this? You say guys are friendly and carrying on the normal day to day stuff, but I don't remember you saying much about what she is pushing for in the whole deal.
Is there pressure to get the ball rolling or for you to get out of the house? Is she talking mediator or lawyer? You have to be separated for a year before you can divorce right?
