No kidding on the friend. As with most EA's I don't think she is telling my wife. My wife thinks things are getting better with she and her husband. What I read was a woman shopping around for a love interest after she leaves her husband.
As far as the kids go. The OM is fading away. She isn't communicating with him any longer. Not being unrealistic but I don't think a 12,9, and 7 year need to be privy to all of that. If that changes then I'll cross that bridge.
Not sure of the wording. Suggestions? My SD15 is aware of everything that has happened and knows we are separating so that is already dealt with. Just the young boys now. So any thoughts on the wording would be helpful.
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
