speaking of you and being twisted/untwisted ...did you get any wicked weather out by you? I heard there were a few twisters that touched down in youor state in the last 24 hrs.
ooooh, ya, not near near me, but in OKcity 8 people died from a 1/2 mile wide tornado last night I believe, and the day before, 4 people died in some small town. It will be coming my way though sometime this year. We've had one as close as 10 blocks away last year. Unfortunately, there are NO basements in OK. but I will live in the safety of the Lord!
Have you seen DW this week? where did she stay during her post surgery?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Have you seen DW this week? where did she stay during her post surgery?
She left my apt late Sun. AM after we had spent a fairly nice and fairly calm (180's of sorts for sure) week together last week. Aparently she thought it best to do her recuperating immediately following the surgery over at her makeshift home @ ex's.
I did make sure to head to the surgery center as a bit of a surprise to her. I head set my alarm clock on Mon AM for 0515 w/ the plan to head there and see her both before and after surgery. But do to alarm clock troubles and other crap by the time I made it there she had already been taken into the OR. But I greeted her with a kiss in recovery (which she might not even recall since she was still in the grips of the anasthesia).
On Sunday, Once I learned of her intention to spend at least her first week of recovery at the ex's I informed her that because I had pretty much lost all respect which I formerly had for him that I would not be coming by there for visits.
So I talked to her on Tuesday and again today. She is sounding like she is doing ok and is progressing ..still a lot of pain though which she is on percocet and maybe other heavy hitters to handle. She is regularly aprehensive about taking pain killers (which is good) but atleast for now she needs them pretty bad.
Most of what she is dealing with in her recovery I am involuntarily out of the loop on.
T, having a little medical knowledge (just enough to be dangerous, lol), you may want to share with her that her body will heal slower if she is not taking her pain pills, & her body has to "fight" the pain.
Also, people respond differently to pain pills. For example; Darvocet makes me hypersensitive to sound & movement. Percocet gives me energy, & I feel almost normal, just with no pain. Vicodin doesn't even touch my pain.
She can ask her Dr to let her try a different one, if she has unpleasant side effects from one.
Another pain pill trick is to cut them in half, & take 1/2 every 2 hours instead of 1 every 4 hours. It cuts down on the nausea, spaciness, & rebound pain. If she still has a lot of nausea, she can ask her Dr to prescribe an anti-nausea medication to take with the pain pills.
I have other TMI tips to share here. Find me in the alt univ.
I did not realize that you & H are interchangeable, & your D & I are as well. Will wonders never cease.
Thanks for always checking on me. It's nice to know you're around.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I did not realize that something happened between you and DW exH. or have you always not liked him? How did she respond when you told her that? I'm thinking it sounds like more drama that you are creating? unless she responded okay to it.
Perhaps she did not want you to see her in such a vulnerable and not-so-pretty state, if in fact she is wanting to pursue things with you again. That would be my thought. Cause in a way, you guys are dating again, and when your dating, for us girls, we don't want our guys to see us looking like crap.
just a thought.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I did not realize that something happened between you and DW exH. or have you always not liked him?
What happened...happened the instant that he started having my darling living at his place. I respected the guy and was plenty amicable towards him before that point.
