There's no competition in the sock department- you're always the winner there!
With H, I think maybe I was unclear..... I said to H that him having a whole area of his life that he didn't feel able to talk about with me (ie what he does at weekends, if he went to the cinema, whether he ever does anything fun, who his friends are these days, how the aubergine is etc.) would make it more difficult to have an open and honest friendship. He thinks that mentioning her might upset me, but really, it wouldn't any more. It is what it is, and I've known he's with her for a long time. I told him that. He didn't say anything. So maybe he's not THAT lost after all. Who knows!
I'll drop you an e-mail tomorrow and we can talk socks and men and blood sugar- read your post but it's late and I'm exhausted from shifting boxes and shredding things!
