(((Jeff)))
I got caught up on your sitch and you seem to be doing so well! You should be proud of all of the work you've put into yourself and all of your efforts at mending your R.
I think your w is nuts. At least your cat gets you!
Hugs...

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08