In terms of meeting her love languages, I'd only do that if she's comfortable enough. You start filling her love buckets too quickly she'll think it's not sincere and still bolt.
Slow and positive. If she puts her leg on you, just pick it up and start massaging without asking like it's no big deal. If she jerks away, then you know you read her action wrong.
Right now it seems like she's giving in to you because she feels bad for putting you in this sitch and the last thing you want is for her to pity you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
