My situation #8

[steady]

So now I saw another lawyer. He said I could go a few different ways.

The first - I could dig my heels in and say I don't want a divorce. This will force my W to sue me for D. NY is a fault state so she would have to prove grounds - which she wouldn't be able to do so it would get thrown out and we would remain married.

Second - come to an agreement with my W and then legally seperate.

Three - do it all through lawyers and let them hammer it out. This would become very expensive.

So now here I sit, as confused as ever...lol.