Well some updates, guess they are investigating H and OW with their unethical behavior at work. I think the bomb will hit soon. For H to lose a 16 year career for this slag that has been here less than a year is mindboggling. I was the one who saw H work his way up, go to college at night, and advance career wise. I have the history -- she is the interloper.
Will H get another job - I am sure -- but money wise I don't think so.
Also I have not talked to H for over 3 weeks now but dropped a Plan B letter at his desk. In it I told him that I was detaching from him to preserve what love I still had for him because I was starting to hate him. Told him I the door was still open to create the M we should have but we cannot have that till his affair with the plastic pinata ends (used her real name). Said this would make our girls happy for us to work on our M. Very short letter a few paragraphs but it really is a roadmap back if he realizes she is not what he wants.
I know it is not a DB thing but it keeps my sanity and gives H boundaries of what he has to do to win me back.
Now I know that H served me D papers, but I have seen other situations much worse than mine where a divorce went through and the M reconciled. So I have to have that faith in God.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
