The part I am really struggling with in my mind is that in the past, she would give me these signals (i.e. resting her legs/feet against mine) and I would ignore them or worse ask her to move them. That was one of the issues as in the beggining, when she did that, I would give her a massage or rub/carress her. I don't want her to think I was just ignoring them again now. How do I balance that?
Let her keep them there but don't do anything else maybe just touch them to acknowledge that it's ok. Don't be an a$$ (not saying you would be) treat her nice.
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I guess another confusing point last nite was that the mid way through the nite, she moved the pillow that was between us - back when we would use to spoon in bed. I didn't try to hug her or anything like that, but did notice it. It is the first time in a couple of weeks it wasn't between us. I'm sure it was just an accident, but thought it was interesting.
Stop over thinking things. I know it's hard I do it all the time but it WILL drive you nuts trying to disect every little thing as "what does this mean".
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
