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which is what her principle issue was for the divorce - that I ignored her and made her feel unimportant).


So make her feel important. What are her "love languages?"
You have recieved the keys to loving your W. Make her feel like she is the most important person in the world. Listen, make a connection, validate - means you understand her feelings, point of view, issue, concern and needs and you tell her, and stop controlling. Listening is one of the most loving gestures you can do for another. Detach and view your interactions as a outsider - look in the fishbowl at yourself.


M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.