After being stuck about 3.5 hours north due to her friend's car issues she made it back.
She spent some times with the kid's and took one of my Ambiens and basically knocked her out within 30 minutes.
I had made dinner ( a complete 180 for me) in the crock pot. She said to me before falling asleep: "you've never done that before...smiling". I just shrugged and downplayed it.
She was up early this AM and we chatted a little. Told her I was moving out on Sat and it was all taken care of. We are talking to the kids soon so they are prepared for my departure. I asked how she was wanting to present it. She said " We are spending some time apart and we aren't doing anything permanent....etc. etc" I didn't say much, just listened. She went on to say she needed to really work to find a job and make money, again, I just listened made no comment.
The kids took over the morning and I took them to school and said goodbye and left.
She seems a bit withdrawn, not unpleasant but more like she is dealing with a lot of emotions and thoughts.
Pup: So the "friend" she is hanging out with and is going through a crisis in her own marriage used her laptop over the weekend. I have Eblaster on it and of course in come the reports. She is in an EA with some guy and its picking up steam. Granted her husband is throwing gas on the fire by how he's acting but wow. Didn't expect all of that. Of course I know but won't say anything as it's not my place. This EA stuff is so insidious.
Anyway...as it has been said by Pup. Do nothing, expect nothing. This helps so much through all of this.
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
