You're still pursuing. You can't keep doing these things and EXPECT something in return. Come on! The massage oil, the hug the you "invited". Read your post again and tell us how it doesn't sound like you're trying to get to to feel "obligated" to you.
Like they say...you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink the kool-aid.
The talking together without R talk is very good. The other stuff is very bad.
You want her to "initiate" rather than just going along with what you keep suggesting. She is going to say that you are CONTROLLING her. If you don't believe me, you'll find that the majority of our WASs have this notion that because the LBSs were trying, we were trying to control them.
It's unbelievable but true.
If she shows an interest ON HER OWN to do something together, then go for it without any expectations. Even though you say you don't, time and time again in all your posts, your neediness is showing. And her reaction is very typical.
Hold off before it's too late.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
