Oh she truly does need to get over herself. I fully agree!!! And yep, she has lost the 'doing the best for the kids' card a long time ago.
She says that but if you look at her actions, it's doing the best for me and the kids come second." I agree with LWB, if she's calling at around the appointed time then I would just let it slide. But if she calls at other times, go screen away.
Oh, I was thinking another reason for the "evil" attitude they have is, well like in my case at least, I think my H seems me as an obstacle to his being happy. I'm keeping him from having a happy life with OW, paying alimony/child support will hamper his fun and vacations with OW, and he wishes I would just disappear so he could be 100% happy. I have to admit that I've had thought like that about him at some low points, tho I try not to, and I act as polite as can be, take the high road, etc. even if sometimes the thoughts I have!!! Karen