No I am one of the lucky ones because I grew for me. Nothing f-ing lucky about it. I didn't win the lottery I did hard work, still do.
Not trying to be trite, but I want you to understand this isn't like finding $20 on the street, this isn't magic. You do the work and you have a better chance with your wife. You do the work and you are a better person. You do the work and this whole crappy mess actually becomes worth it.
Or sit there mope, worry and bemoan and lose a year or two off your life.
One is simple the only choice that makes sense.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
