Good girl. I think the fact that I didn't know about this site for a v long time meant I missed out at a crucial time of trying to save my marriage BUT I think I saved myself from an avalanche of 2x4's and beatings!!! I can say (now) that I cried out to the heavens and anyone else within earshot on a daily basis the same questions and many more that had no answers. You however are much smarter than me
