Hi Naej. Yeah I've decided to just go for the night out. Just because life's not going exactly as I want at the moment doesn't mean I should let it pass me by. I'm going to go out with the sole purpose of enjoying myself. Whether or not my W finds out about it is of little consequence. this has to be about me now. Besides, what else am I going to do? Sit about on my own feeling sorry for myself? I don't think so.

Thanks for your advice on kids. That's set my mind at rest a bit. In answer to your question, yes so far as possible we try to keep him in the same routine. He gets his tea when we get home from work and then we play for a bit before bath time. After which it's bottle and bed. He's a good sleeper so we're lucky in that respect. I'll just play at by ear. He goes back to my W tomorrow morning so I intend to hand him over as a happy boy.


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.