And most of the men the spoke to said that was the case. Also they said how men need to feel like they are winning, and that goes for a marriage, it boiled down to feeling appreciated. How in alot of areas we just over look that, such as them going to work everyday, and if they feel that its taken for granted. So with the ow they make them feel appreciated, and strokes there ego. The emotional thing was suprising to me to!
I hear that last part so often from the female perspective of men. Men are emotional?! Can't be?
Well let's see.
Men & Women, both human beings and aside from the reproductive organ biology, we pretty much share the same body parts & other essential body parts: brain, heart, etc.
We also always hear about emotional intelligence and that men just don't get it and they just don't have any emotional intelligence. But if women have emotional intelligence and men don't and it's surprising for women to hear that men can be emotional, maybe women having more emotional intelligence than men is another myth?
Food for thought.
Have you ever seen a father hold his kid for the first time after child birth? Have you seen the pride in a good father's heart when he holds his son or daughter for the first time. Have you ever seen the expression in a father's eyes when someone hurts his children? Have you ever seen a father shield his children from harm? I'm sure you've witnessed all of the above with other women but how many times did you spend the time to soak in these types of moments when men have performed them? Men aren't automatons, we do have feelings.
I'm not posting this to be angry or set anyone in there place, it's just when I read stuff like this, it shows me that maybe women don't pay enough attention to men & their relationships that they claim to do.
If men aren't emotional, why do men fall in love with women?
