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[kat727]

Yoyo, I can relate. Ex wanted to be friends with me while he was just starting his A. I thought about it and decided that if he were my friend and I knew he was doing this to his wife, I couldn't be his friend anymore.

Perhaps step outside of your situation too. If this was happening to a friend of yours, what would you say to her? What would you tell her to say to her H? Maybe that will get you some more clarity. I know we all want(ed) our relationships to work, that's why we come here. And what they say is true, until it happens to you how could you know what you would do?

Sorry not much advice, just food for thought.

hugs, kat