Really all she has expressed is that she feels that she doesn't have a good choice to make - a divorce or staying in an unhappy marriage. I had tried to offer the third of staying and building our relationship so we can have the life we both had dreamed of when we got married.
I hate to tell you this, but you are not listening, you are trying to provide solutions. It would be better to say something like:
"I understand how scared you are. It must look like you are choosing the lesser of two evils."
Stop there! Do not try to solve her problem. She will have to find the solution you are offering her by herself.
As to Retrouvaille, go to their website at http://www.helpourmarriage.com and check the dates for PA. There is a link for weekend info and then request information.
AN
M43 W45, M17 S9 D6 Bomb: 11/11/08 EA: 10/26-12/31/08 ? Retrouvaille: 2/13-2/15/09 Healed, but still heading for D My situation
