As you know my H too feels very happy with his ow, and they are always out and about doing fun stuff together. He honestly thinks that this is IT for him. In retrospect, ...how is it possible that they 'see' things that way....and what makes the situation of 'waking up' and returning home, different to maybe never 'waking up' from this and having found what they were looking for in that ow afterall....
I think what I'm trying to ask is....how come for some men, the ow remains the attraction and 'love of their life' and for some men, they end up missing home and their x-spouse so much that they want to return.... In a way, you see, it sometimes feels like we DO have 17 years of history, but it's never been enough for him to miss ME or miss US...does that mean I am not good enough to come back to, or is ow too good to be true, or is it truly a thing in our H's mind....
Just wondering...Thanks xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
