Why would they just accept the caller's word for it? You are the person they know. Do they not realize how absurd that makes them appear,
Human nature is a funny thing -- say something good about a person and it is rarely passed on. Say something bad about a person and the word travels with the speed of light.
There is a guilty until proven atmosphere at this place. Boss asked my immediate supervisor 4 times if my work met standards. You would think one Yes would have been sufficient.
Thanks
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