I wish she wasn't so resolved to doing this. She is so confident in what she is doing, it's almost scary. She told me she would be TDY during spring break and some other time. I said, I'm sure you'll have a good time. She said, what makes you think I'm having a good time? I haven't been anywhere, just been sitting here in this room. I didn't say anything. WHY WON'T SHE ATTEMPT TO WORK THIS OUT????? This is madness...
Yes, it is. By DEFINITION. She's lost right now, and the sooner you stop driving yourself crazy with all the "WHYs" the better off you'll be, John.
Why won't she attempt to work this out? Because right now, SHE DOESN'T WANT TO.
It's that simple. All you can do is work on saving YOURSELF right now, and MAYBE she'll decide at some point that yours is a ride on which she wants to come along.
