SC you will be just fine. Yes, you will need to accept that your h is gone right now and not at all interested in working on the m. That you will need to accept. Hard pill to swallow, but that is reality.

Once you step back, you don't know what might happen. By being kind and loving towards your h and leaving him be will help him heal and think and process his life. You never know then what he might be thinking and he could see you for who he fell in love with, but he CAN'T see that now.

You are a wonderful person, don't let this situation allow you to think otherwise.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"