Something I received in an e-mail this morning said that if you don't need another person in your life to be happy, then you are ready to date again. I would challenge you to look at what is happening with you and MOT35 and ask if that template fits? Does she need you to be happy? Do you need her to be happy? If so, then you are not complete in your wholeness as a single person. Sorry to dump water on you if you are feeling down, but when I read that, I thought of you. Long-term healing is better than short-term pain relief. You dont want to postpone all the emotions tied to your D, and then have to deal with them again after the collapse of the next relationship.

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.