I'm sorry, yes, it is insensitive of your H. However, 'they' don't see it that way, 'they' are looking for love, compassion, friendship, whatever and 'expect' us to want what is best for 'THEM' to be and feel happy....
My H does that stuff too, he calls ow infront of my nose, in my house and says 'bye, sweetheart' to her, right infront of me...he doesn't even think twice about how much it may hurt. He doesn't care, as HE is happy....and when you're 'happy' you are unable to see anything else, or someone else's pain. We understand pain, when we too are in pain, or have gone through it, but if you know no pain, then it's much harder to see or understand it.
I just hope that your life will be a good and happy one ! You are such a kind soul !!! xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
