My W was unhappy but she said she didn't consider leaving until the OM (who was also married) put the idea in her head. They kind of made a pack together to break up with each other's spouses. I don't think my W would had gone looking herself but she was vulnerable to someone else's pressure.
It's a shame she was so weak, it'll be her downfall I believe.
I agree Rob. OM in my W's case told her he was going to D his W so they could be together forever, but he had no intention of doing that and was in fact cheating on my W with another GF all the time telling my W that he was working on D'ing his W.
And she fell for it.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
