Are certain personalities predisposed to affairs?

[Hope4us]

Me too Karen. My family just doesn't have divorces where W's it's pretty much the norm.

So how do you get a WAS to understand that divorce really affects kids when they are the product of divorced parents. It's like they'd have to admit they're screwed up by what their parents did and who wants to admit that?

I think it also can lead to an attitude that "I need to do what makes me happy" which seems to be where a lot of the D's in her family came from. Wasn't a whole lot of "lets solve our problems so WE can be happy and the kids live in a well adjusted household". Just "I need to be happy and F everyone else".

And that's just sad.