\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

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My daughter wasn't feeling that great this morning when she got up. Said she's boy crazy right now and just feeling down. The wife called at 6 this morning to make sure my daughter was up. Asked if it was alright that she come over and have a "slumber party" with her tomorrow night. I said, I don't see why not. Should I really let her come? I mean I can't stop her from seeing her daughter and I would rather my daughter be comfortable in her home that in some room somewhere. My initial reaction is to clean as much as I can to show her what she is giving up. I don't think it will make that much of a difference but it might cast some more doubt if there is any--I'm hoping and praying. I tried not to be ugly on the phone but in reflection, my answers were a little short and curt. I wish she wasn't so resolved to doing this. She is so confident in what she is doing, it's almost scary. She told me she would be TDY during spring break and some other time. I said, I'm sure you'll have a good time. She said, what makes you think I'm having a good time? I haven't been anywhere, just been sitting here in this room. I didn't say anything. WHY WON'T SHE ATTEMPT TO WORK THIS OUT????? This is madness... Any suggestions on how to handle this visit tomorrow night????