My first step out of Newcomers

[Can it work]

Wee Man was a bit unsettled last night and didn't want to go to bed at his usual time. I think this sitch may finally be affecting him. I hope it doesn't get any worse. Mind you, I also think he's coming down with a cold so it could just be that. When he eventually did go to sleep, he slept all night and woke up in an excellent mood. I dropped him off at the child minder's this morning and he was still in a good mood when I left so I'm sure he'll be fine.

Thanks for your input and encouragement once again Carlos. I think I am becoming more settled in myself. My emotions don't seem to have been running so high over the last couple of days. I keep hearing that this is going to be a marathon so I guess I'm just going to have to settle down and find my own pace for the duration.

I know what you're saying about letting go of our spouses. It's something that needs to be done either way. I'm struggling with it though. Probably less now that I was certainly but still struggling on occasion. There are just certain things that sets it off. I'm sure over time they'll get less though.

I just have to now accept my sitch. I don't think I've done that fully yet if I'm honest. I know what's best for me and Wee Man and I know pretty much what I have to do to make myself a stronger person. Now I just have to convince my heart to follow that path!

Kev