Hi Rob, your x is ... unique. She doesnt give up, does she? I think you should calmly stick to what you think is best for you. Pulling out the best for D's interest is manipulative and a trick. She probably knows too she will end up owing you money and she is trying her best to avoid it. I am glad your job issue is resolved. Living in uncertainty is really nerve breaking.
You are moving on nicely. I am proud of you. xxx K
