Purple, You are so right about the extra space being outside and in more public spaces...Sometimes I think I get to insular in my thoughts and forget just how easy it can be to step outside - both of myself and out the front door.
I know you've had to juggle a lot yourself as you've taken on that role of single parent - so I value your advice tremendously.
I'm looking at some places this week/weekend...hopefully my S11 will have a chance to share his thoughts on them with me.