YOU may have believed you had a happy M but obviously your W DID NOT feel the same. If she did she would not have strayed. I just don't believe that she was so happy she thought "oh lets go cause all this upheaval and get involved with someone else". There had to be something lacking for her to do that.
I know when you are hurting sometimes it is hard to dig deep and see what that was....but one needs to.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
