Spellfire # 3 - Need a campfire here

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Make an appointment for both of you to get a massage together. You are both on table in the same room. Arrange a babysitter and then go for a nice meal or something. You probably couldn't do it this Saturday with so little notice but make if for the following weekend or the next and give her a card with the info and the date. Then you know she will get the massage, you both enjoy it together and while you are both relaxed you spend some nice time together over a meal.

Let her know that this is for you both to spend no-sexual intimate time together and enjoy each other company and you have no expectations.