oh, I forgot to add. and I'm not sure this would be how guys feel, because they are different, but most women are very emotional. and when I cheated, although I was very sucked in by this man, the whole time I was wishing it was my H doing all these things. I just didn't realize that if only I had changed, that my H and my R would have changed too. But I was trying to get him to understand MY way, the cheeseless tunnel way, and never realized it wasn't working because I wasn't trying something different.

anyways, had to clarify that, because I think for women, that might be how a lot of WAS may feel.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."