Indeed. W does like massage, and the only way I could pull it off is if I specifically tell her my intentions ahead of time.

Might be best saved for a later time however, once I have built more trust. She may still just take it as me wanting to get my hands on her. Especially since last time she could tell I was frustrated she backed out of ML.

Had a good night tonight. We ate out and went shopping as a family. Was a fun time. She asked me what I want for V Day. What I really want is her dressed in something daring, but I just said "nothing, a card is fine". I don't want to pressure her at all.

Spellfire aka Mike

"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A