DB doesn't really have steps, but DR does. It is 7 steps iirc. Each chapter is a step? Been a few months since I read it. Yeah, it is not exactly gonna hold your hand, but every page is valuable material if this stuff is foreign to you.
The collective experience of the people on these forums has really evolved a body of knowledge outside of the books, but rooted deeply in them.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
