I've seen a lot of LBS say that their WAS were looking for the OP to make them happy or things like that. So I think people that are looking for the person that will make them happy instead of trying to maybe make yourself happy might be more prone to affairs. One thing I've learned I think is that you have to do that for yourself.
My H is also from a family where all his siblings and parents have had multiple marriages (this has happened in the past 19 years before we married or would have been a red flag I think), so in his case I think their family and he views marriage differently than I do, my family had basically no divorces and it wasn't seen as an option really, and I still kind of think that way. Karen
