Venting.... D's school just called for 3 things. 1.) To remind me that I signed up to bring ice cream friday. I remebered 2.) to tell me d is VIP this week at school and she didn't turn in her form stating if a parent was coming class with her to read her favorite book. The form was in her back pack, she must have not turned it in. 3.) To ask me to send pics of d growing up. I totally forgot! I am sure the XW will not be pleased with me about this.
I am feeling overwhelmed these days. Between my WAW, logistical arrangement with my d. Dealing with a house i can't afford, and a broke down car. Ugh!!!!! All while my XW seems to getting by with out a care in the world. New life, new apartment, new car, new furniture, weekends away with her friends!!!!! etc... But I guarentee I will be the bad guy out of this, cause I forgot to send the pictures...
She says d will not be affected by the d as along as we work together. BS, she is affected each and everyday, but you(XW) are too self centered to open your eyes. One day you will realize what you gave up, and I do believe you will be sorry.
Keep the faith!! One Goal! Thanks CZ me: 34 XW: 29 D: 5 T: 13 M:9 Dday: Sep 18, 08 joint legal and physical custody of child XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!
Sorry you're having a hard time of late. I went back and read up on your sitch today. Is there any way to have XW share some of the financial responsibilities? I saw that you cosigned for her new car, are you paying anything for that? If her name is still on the mortgage then she should be contributing.
I know it's difficult. All I can say is hang in there. Try to keep up PMA. You're doing a good job with D5. So you forgot one thing, big deal! No one is perfect. Just forgive yourself and start fresh tomorrow.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
I am a good person! I am a good father! I was a good husband!
I will repeat this everytime I think about XW.
Keep the faith!! One Goal! Thanks CZ me: 34 XW: 29 D: 5 T: 13 M:9 Dday: Sep 18, 08 joint legal and physical custody of child XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!
Don't think I broke NC rules...sent xBF email re: bank account issue and that's it. Ignored his request for dinner this week that he left in the note on Sunday. So looks like it will be at least until next Monday before I talk to him. That will make it, hmm, 24 days by then!
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g
Yeah, I read that on yr thread Pearl. That's quite within the rules. 24 days!...good girl! I've actually lost count, but I don't care anymore I like being me too much to worry
I am thinking that going dark is possibly aggravating my stitch is that anyone else's experience and what does it mean? DR book says to expect it but at what point do you know if it is helping or hurting things? I am not the one having difficulty NC him -is that bad? He is the one who can't control himself and sometimes I find it comforting to know he cares, but I also feel tired of his complaints and anger at life. ANy suggestions for resolving my dilemmma? If this gets locked someone start it over and respond there I will find it eventually.
