I was concerned that I was being a bit caustic with my comments, but in my real world I can only change so much (and I only want to change so much) so if he decided he didn't care for the person that I am, perhaps its for the best.
I still have hope that something might happen for the positive with my R. When I return from my vacation I'm going to suggest again that we go see a MC. Perhaps on of the Imago counselors. I hope that perhaps since the shock has worn off, perhaps he'll reconsider.
I have often thought that it would be best to be separate for awhile, but like most Americans in this economic climate we can't maintain 2 households. And things really aren't dramatic or painful. They just aren't anything. It is really like having a roommate. Except my roommates from college and I used to hang out more
Married - 19 years Noticed Problem - Aug 2008 THE Conversation - Oct 2008
The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference.
