This may have been covered at some point, and if it has, I apologize. I'm trying to learn as much as I can about infidelity because I'm currently experiencing it with my WAW... and despite all of the pain, I'm strangely fascinated by it because it really does seem to follow a script.

My question is: are there certain personality traits or characteristics that make someone more prone to cheating on a spouse? One I've read on here is a demonstrated unwillingness or hesitation to admit fault... that is something I have seen in my W throughout our marriage. Are there other behaviors or traits that one should consider as potential "warning signs"? I guess I'm sort of looking for a cheat sheet on what to look out for in my future relationships... maybe it's not quite that simple, but since everything else feels like it follows a script, maybe this does too.

-Jay