today I met with the priest specializing in MC. After I "presented my case":-) he said that going "dark" is a good idea. That I have to set my boundries.
As a matter of fact he suggested that I'd take it even further: change my phone number, block her email, so I wouldn't get any new messages. Change the locks and avoid my W at all cost until I get my head straight or she's ready to make a decision.
Call me a chicken but I think this would be going too far and it's against the DR. I don't want to push my W compeletely out of my life, just want her to know that I'm ready to move on with my life.
Propably Puppy would have something wise to say about that idea. You're more than welcome :-).
On the flip side he did say that I jumped the gun last week, and pushed my W too far with my expectations. Should give her more time if she's not ready yet. So I will.
Of course also said that he'd love to talk my W, to listen to her side of the story, but I'm not sure if I should even mention it. It'll be like pushing again.
