It's hard to hide this deadline... basically, we moved to a different state this year for her job, and it didn't take her long to develop an EA with a new co-worker. It put me in a really bad place, because I'm isolated from my friends and family back in my home state. So since everything has gone down, I've said that I'm going to move back to my home state if things don't work. I've had a few false starts on that (due to her telling me she wants it to be over, and then feeling sad and having second thoughts the next day). This morning, I finally booked the airline tickets to go apartment hunting. Literally, she has 2 weeks to convince me that she's willing to make changes to get our relationship back on track. It will take a pretty dramatic gesture at this point, as I'm less inclined to fall for the waffling now, especially since she continues to have her EA unabated during all of this.
I can see what you are saying, though... I'm expecting an impassioned plea right before I leave. But you know what? As I alluded to earlier in this thread (sorry for the hijack, SW), I'm very very close to the point (if not there already) where I don't really want her back anymore. Frankly, I'm not sure she deserves it
